Whether it’s a frenzied coupling in a sun-drenched ocean or a long and lazy paddling pool passion-fest, sex and water go together like man and woman. Here, Scarlet shares her top 20 tips for going with the flow. For more, check out Erotic Adventures in Water from Quiver.
1. Seaside Striptease
Challenge your partner to fully remove their bathing suit in a public pool or ocean and get it back on without anyone else noticing. You can cop a few underwater feels if you’re quick.
2. Blanket Fund
For sex on the beach bring a few supplies. The most crucial is a large blanket. No matter how much you love the feeling of sand, you aren’t going to like it when it gets into your most intimate places. A second blanket can also be helpful, both for privacy and for warmth.
3. Wet Role-Play
The sea offers a whole world of risque role-plays for you and your partner to try out. They can play pirate by threatening to make you walk the plank unless you succumb to their desires. Or rent them a sailor suit and pretend they’ve just picked you up at a seedy bar. Alternatively agree to meet at the beach and act as if you don’t know each other. Flirt with your honey shamelessly. Use fake names if it will help get you in the mood. Then find a secluded spot for hot sex. Have a quickie and leave separately. You might have been together for ten years but sex under these circumstances will make it feel like the first time.
4. Slippery Chap
If you own a water bed, strip off the linens, replace with a plastic sheet and slather the mattress in baby oil. The slippery sensations and rolling waves of the bed will make for a wet ride that’s worth the mess .
5. Be A Naughty Girl
People are taught from the earliest age not to wet their pants and that doing so is not only wrong and naughty, but unhygienic and embarrassing. Wet knicker enthusiasts turn these notions on their head to make sexy what others find distasteful, and the thrill of breaking the taboo is part of the arousal. Whether dampened by urine or sexual fluids, the internet lists scores of sites devoted to wet underwear. Why not give it a go and see if it floats your boat?
6. Indoor Oil Wrestling
Lay down thick towels or mats. Cover these with a big plastic sheet or tarpaulin. Then coat each other from head-to-toe in baby oil and proceed to have your own personal wrestling match. Feel free to make up your own rules. You can decide that two tumbles determines a win, or that shoulders have to be pinned for 10 seconds in order to score a point. The loser will be required to give the winner a thorough sponge bath.
7. Smelly And Loving It
Our natural muskiness is created by our most intimate bodily fluids. The scent of sweat, semen and vaginal secretions are unique to each individual and could awaken a lover’s libido like little else. Try shedding the cultural expectations that demand a lover smell like roses and let yourself enjoy the scents that are actually designed to turn you on. Go on, take a deep breath and feel your arousal increase.
8. Water Bondage
During water bondage, participants are either tied up underwater and given scuba gear to breathe or they’re bound in a more traditional setting and then hose down with water, with the stream often focused on their genitals to bring them to orgasm. For a more bedsheet-friendly version try securing your lover, then filling a bottle with warm water and treating them to some well-placed squirts.
9. Wet Look Love
Spice things up with a wet T-shirt contest put on for just one pair of eyes.
10. Hot Hairdresser
Many people love having their hair professionally washed at a salon. The combination of warm water coursing down your scalp, followed by relaxing by a relaxing scrub can be a delicious experience and it can be even hotter when performed by someone you fancy. Make sure your partner is in a position where it’s comfortable to tilt the head back. Then carefully ladle water over their head and rub in shampoo. Be thorough and apply slow firm pressure to help relieve the tension that can build up in the neck and scalp. After the bath, dry off and curl up in bed for a cozy cuddle, or stay damp and enjoy a hot sex session that will require another rinse once you’re done.
11 Feng Shui Your Fuck
If water turns you on, invest in a fountain or fish tank for your bedroom. Creating the perfect atmosphere sets the right wet mood and caters to a rich fantasy life.
12 Let It Flow
Female ejaculation is one of the wettest ways for women (and her partner) to experience sex. While some women can ejaculate during vaginal sex, for many others pressure has to be applied directly on the G-spot. If you’re having difficulty finding the G-spot vaginally, you might be a back door gal. The G-spot can be indirectly stimulated through anal penetration because the vagina and the rectum are only separated by a thin membrane.Try pushing a finger, toy, or penis towards the front wall of the vagina during anal play to see if this helps you achieve G-spot stimulation. Note that many women confuse the sensation of G-spot stimulation with the need to urinate. Try to work past this feeling and continue stimulating the area for a truly torrential orgasm.
13. Cover Up
Wet sex can still be safe sex. Condoms can be used in or underwater. But remember, it’s easiest to put on a condom out of the water where you can see what you’re doing and feel that it’s on properly. And though condoms are effective in water, they’re more likely to slip off, and you might be less likely to notice, so regularly check the condom to make sure it’s still in place.
14. Slippery When Wet
Many condoms are coated with an artificial lubricant. Generally, this lubricant is water based. That’s great on dry land but put a water based lube in water itself and you will see it simply wash away (much the same way a woman’s natural lubrication does). The best thing to do is to use a silicon-based lube. And unlike oil-based lubes, the silicone varieties are compatible with condoms.
15. Lather Up
Try shaving your partner in the bath or shower. A woman’s legs, a man’s face or your pubes can all be treated to a sensual shave by a lover. Make sure to use a fresh razor and plenty of lather as you go. Then the luxuriate as smooth skin begins to emerge beneath your fingers.
16. Poolside Safety
Potential pitfalls of pool sex include: slipping – the pool floor or deck can be slippery so make sure your on solid ground before you go to town; if you’re leaning against any part of a pool make sure you are on a smooth surface as no one likes pool burn on their butt; and if you plan on taking off your bathing suit make sure you know where it went, especially when planning a nudie night-time session.
17. Underwater Hotels
For those who want to try their hand at a nautical version of the Mile-High Club, spending a night at an underwater hotel could be just the thing. Jules’ Undersea Lodge in Florida was originally used as a research laboratory to explore the continental shelf off the coast of Puerto Rico. To reach it, guests need to scuba dive 21 feet beneath the surface of the sea and swim through tropical mangroves. Once inside, they are treated to many of the comfort of a regular hotel as they gaze out of the windows at sea creatures floating by. The hotel also offers wedding and honeymoon packages.
18. Sexy Sand
Sand can hold heat and mould itself to the contours of your body. Challenge your lover to make sexy sand imprints, and then take photos of your creations for future enjoyment.
19. Mad About The Buoy
Swim over to a buoy and hold onto it with both hands while he enters you from behind. He should make sure to use the buoy and not your shoulders for support, so in his excitement he doesn’t inadvertently push you under.
20. Pool Position
Pool sex is a common fantasy so if you ever get out to the poolside and, miraculously enough, it’s empty, try facing the ladder and grabbing the bars while he enters you from behind. Place your feet on the bottom wrong and stick your bum out for really deep penetration. Alternatively, having one partner sit on the edge of the pool is a great way for the swimming partner to get in some good licks and sucks.
